Child-centred co-parenting
Keep kids
in the center,
not the middle.
The calm, shared home for separated parents — where every suggestion starts from what’s best for your child, not who’s owed a weekend.
No credit card. Useful from day one, even on your own.
An illustrative view of your space
Four calm experiences
Plan, talk, share and resolve.
All in one place.
Everything separated parents need to coordinate day to day — organised around your child’s happiness rather than a fairness scoreboard.
Plan
Plan together
“Whose weekend is it?”
A shared calendar for whose-house schedules, custody patterns, agreed trips and time away — arranged around what works for your child, not who’s owed a weekend.
Talk
Keep things clear
“I don’t know how to say this without a row.”
Private, full-history messaging between co-parents — with Tone AI quietly offering a calmer way to say something before you hit send.
Share
Document easily
“Where’s her passport, and who paid for the boots?”
Passports, birth certificates and visas, shared expenses with receipts, and a timeline that records every change — ready the moment you need it.
Resolve
Get support
“This is getting bigger than the two of us.”
Foresight flags friction early, Ask AI gives calm child-first guidance in context, and a real person on our team — or a neutral enquiry to your legal team — is a click away.
The Parenting Plan Playbook
One plan you both agree to.
Not a hundred small arguments.
The Playbook is the rulebook that sits above everything else — the shared set of decisions you, your mediators and your legal team all work to. A guided wizard walks you through twelve areas of your child’s life, the AI drafts a fair first plan, and you agree it point by point. The day-to-day then runs on decisions you already made together, calmly, in advance.
- Twelve areas: schedules, holidays, education, health, activities, faith, communication, travel, finances and more
- AI drafts a balanced first plan; you edit every word
- Agree each point together — propose, agree, or suggest a change
- Both sign off and it becomes your shared source of truth
- A calm way to bring a hesitant co-parent in — their plan is already waiting
Holidays & school breaks
“Christmas Day alternates each year, and the summer break is split evenly — booked at least six weeks ahead.”
Foresight
Sees the small stuff early —
before it becomes a big deal.
Foresight learns the rhythm of your family and gently flags the patterns worth getting ahead of. Every signal starts from your child’s stability, comes with a calm next step, and is yours to action or wave away.
Thursday swaps are creeping later
The last three handovers moved back by an hour or more — the kind of drift that unsettles a child’s evening if it keeps going.
- Spots friction forming — stalled expenses, slipping handovers, quiet weeks
- Frames each one kindly and neutrally, never as taking sides
- One low-conflict next step you can act on together
- Learns from what you dismiss, so it only surfaces what matters to you
- Catches issues early, so fewer ever need a lawyer
An assistant on your child’s side
Guidance that starts with your child,
not the scoreboard.
Tap Ask AI on any trip, expense or schedule and get calm, child-first guidance in context — plans and swaps that keep your child settled, not automated 50/50 policing. If something needs to go further, Coparity drafts a neutral enquiry, private to you, that you approve and send to your legal team.
- Calm, child-first suggestions — not fairness enforcement
- Plans and swaps you can approve together in a tap
- Your legal lane is private to you — enquiries and notes your co-parent never sees
- AI-drafted, non-inflammatory framing you approve and send
- Invite your own lawyer in — read-only access to your live record, revocable any time
- Store your legal team, or search local family-law firms
Neutral by design
For your children — never one
parent’s side against the other.
The same calm, child-first guidance goes to both of you. We never quietly relay what one parent tells us, it’s always clear what’s shared and what’s private, and your records are always yours to take with you.
The calendar, expenses, documents and chat — the record you build together, visible to you both, always.
Your legal lane — contacts, enquiries and notes — plus anything you send our team. Never shared with your co-parent.
- Neutral to the core — we help you find a plan, we don’t pick a winner
- Talk to a human on our team, private to you — never seen by your co-parent
- Your data is yours: export everything you can see, any time
- A clear line between shared records and what stays between you and us
- Guidance, not legal advice — with a route to a qualified lawyer when it matters
You don’t need both parents to start
Just as useful
when it’s only you.
Not every co-parent is ready to sign up — and that’s okay. Coparity works fully on your own from day one: the schedule, the expenses, the documents and a clear record for your child, with AI guidance and a real person on our team whenever you need one.
- Full access on your own — nothing is locked behind a second sign-up
- Every record is kept safely and stays yours to export anytime
- Invite your co-parent whenever you’re ready — no pressure
- When they join, they see the complete history from the start
And if they join weeks or months later, they open the same space to the full history. Nothing to redo.
Getting started
Three quiet steps.
01
Create your space
Set up your private co-parenting space in seconds — no complicated setup.
02
Invite your co-parent — or don’t, yet
Coparity is fully useful on your own. Share one secure link whenever you’re ready — when they join, they see the full history from the start.
03
Keep your child at the center
Plan, talk, share and resolve in one place — with AI help that always starts from what’s best for your child.
Simple pricing
One plan.
No surprises.
Start free for 14 days — no card. Keep everything with one straightforward plan when you’re ready.
Free trial
Full access, no commitment.
- Every feature included
- Both co-parents
- No credit card required
Family
Everything, for the whole family.
- Parenting Plan Playbook — agreed together
- Unlimited children, trips & expenses
- AI Assistant, Foresight & legal escalation
- Document storage & activity timeline
- Priority support · cancel anytime
Frequently asked
The things
people ask us.
Is my data private, and can I take it with me?
Yes. Everything is scoped to your pair and protected by row-level security — only you and your co-parent can see it. You can export a copy of everything you can access at any time, and anything you send our team stays private to you.
What if my co-parent won’t join?
Coparity is built to be fully useful on your own. Keep the schedule, log expenses with receipts, store your children’s documents, get child-first AI guidance and reach a real person on our team — all solo. Nothing waits on the other parent. Everything you add is kept safely, and the moment they choose to join — weeks or months later — they see the complete history from day one. No pressure, and no lost work.
What is the Parenting Plan Playbook?
It’s your overarching parenting plan — one pre-agreed set of rules across twelve areas of your children’s lives (schedules, holidays, education, health, communication, finances and more) that both parents, and any mediators or legal team, work to. A guided wizard walks you through it, the AI can draft a fair first version you edit, and you agree it point by point: one parent proposes, the other agrees or suggests a change. Once you both sign off, it becomes your shared source of truth. You can start it on your own — and a plan already waiting is often the calmest way to bring a hesitant co-parent in.
Do you take sides?
No — Coparity is neutral by design. We give the same child-first guidance to both parents, we never secretly share what one of you tells us with the other, and we help you reach a workable plan rather than deciding who’s right.
Can I talk to a real person?
Yes. Alongside the AI, a real person on our team is one click away from any conversation. Those messages go only to us — your co-parent never sees them — and we treat safety concerns as urgent.
Can I bring my own lawyer in?
Yes. Your legal lane — your contacts, enquiries and notes — is private to you and never visible to your co-parent. When a case is live you can invite your solicitor into your space as a legal representative: they work from your live record read-only (never the other parent’s private information), can take part in your enquiry discussions, and you can revoke their access instantly at any time.
What makes the AI assistant different?
It’s built to start from your child’s wellbeing, not to police 50/50 fairness. It suggests plans and schedules in their best interest and keeps guidance calm — but it isn’t a substitute for a qualified lawyer.
What is Tone AI in chat?
When a message you’re typing to your co-parent might land as tense, Tone AI gently offers a calmer, child-focused way to say the same thing — you can use it, edit it, or send your own words. It only ever looks at your own drafts before you send, never your co-parent’s messages, and nothing is stored. You can turn it off any time in Settings.
What is Foresight, and is it watching us?
Foresight reads only your own shared space — the schedules, expenses and activity you already keep in Coparity — to gently flag patterns worth getting ahead of, like a stalled expense or slipping handovers. Nothing leaves your pair, it never shares data between you, and every signal is just a suggestion you can action or dismiss. It learns from what you wave away, so it only surfaces what matters to your family.
Do I need a credit card to start?
No. The 14-day free trial needs no card — you get full access from day one.
What happens after the trial?
Move to the Family plan to keep everything running. You can cancel anytime.
Keep your kids in the center, not the middle.
Set up your shared, child-first space in minutes. Your first 14 days are free — no card, no lock-in, and it works even if you’re the only one who signs up.
Start free for 14 days