Child-centred co-parenting

Keep kids in the center, not the middle.

Coparity is the calm, shared home for separated parents to plan, talk, share and resolve — with an AI assistant that starts every suggestion from what's best for your child, not who's owed a weekend.

14-day free trial · No credit card required

This week

Kids with you Fri–Sun

Owed to you

£120.00 pending

Legal enquiry

1 private draft

Foresight: “This expense has been pending 3 weeks — a gentle nudge now keeps things clear for the kids. Want me to draft one?”
Ask AI: “Freya's recital falls on a switch night — suggest a plan that keeps her evening calm?”

Plan, talk, share and resolve — in one place

Everything separated parents need to coordinate day-to-day, organised around four calm experiences — and always around your child's happiness, not a fairness scoreboard.

Plan

Plan together

A shared calendar for whose-house schedules, custody patterns, agreed trips and time away — arranged around what works for your child, not who's owed a weekend.

Talk

Keep things clear

Private, full-history messaging between co-parents — with Tone AI that quietly offers a calmer way to say something before you hit send. Tag an approved trip into the thread and keep every arrangement in one calm, shared place.

Share

Document easily

Children's passports, birth certificates and visas, shared expenses with receipts, and a timeline that records every change — ready the moment you need it.

Resolve

Get support

Foresight quietly spots frictions forming and flags them early, Ask AI gives calm child-first guidance in context, and — when you need more — a real person on our team, or a neutral enquiry to your legal team, is a click away.

New · Parenting Plan Playbook

One plan you both agree to — not a hundred small arguments

The Playbook is the pre-agreed rulebook that sits above everything else — the shared set of rules you, your mediators and your legal team all work to. A guided wizard walks you through twelve areas of your child's life, the AI drafts a fair first plan, and you agree it point by point — so the day-to-day runs on decisions you already made together, calmly, in advance.

  • Twelve areas: schedules, holidays, education, health, activities, faith, communication, travel, finances and more
  • AI drafts a balanced first plan; you edit every word
  • Agree each point together — propose, agree, or suggest a change
  • Both sign off and it becomes your shared source of truth
  • A calm, concrete way to bring a hesitant co-parent in — their plan is already waiting
Parenting Plan · agreed together
18 of 44 points agreed41%
Holidays & school breaksProposed

“Christmas Day alternates each year, and the summer break is split evenly — booked at least six weeks ahead.”

AgreeAsk to revisit
Communication — agreed by both parents
Foresight · watching quietly, for the kids
HandoversKeep an eye on

Thursday swaps are creeping later

The last three handovers moved back by an hour or more — the kind of drift that unsettles a child's evening if it keeps going.

A gentle next step: agree a settled handover time you can both hold to.
Mark handledPrepare a legal noteDismiss
New · Foresight

Sees the small stuff early — before it becomes a big deal

Foresight learns the rhythm of your family — schedules, handovers, expenses, the pace of conversation — and gently flags the patterns worth getting ahead of. Every signal starts from your child's stability, comes with a calm next step, and is yours to review, action or wave away.

  • Spots friction forming — stalled expenses, slipping handovers, quiet weeks
  • Frames each one kindly and neutrally, never as taking sides
  • One low-conflict next step you can act on together
  • Learns from what you dismiss, so it only surfaces what matters to you
  • Catches issues early, so fewer ever need a lawyer
An assistant on your child's side

Guidance that starts with your child, not the scoreboard

Tap Ask AI on any trip, expense or schedule and get calm, child-first guidance in context — plans and swaps that keep your child settled, not automated 50/50 policing. If an issue needs to go further, Coparity drafts a neutral enquiry — private to you — that you approve and send to your legal team. When a case is live, you can even invite your solicitor into your space to work from the same live record, read-only.

  • Calm, child-first suggestions — not fairness enforcement
  • Plans and swaps you can approve together in a tap
  • Your legal lane is private to you — enquiries and notes your co-parent never sees
  • AI-drafted, non-inflammatory framing you approve and send
  • Invite your own lawyer in — read-only access to your live record, revocable any time
  • Store your legal team, or search local family-law firms
Coparity Assistant · not legal advice
Leo's football final is on my co-parent's weekend. How should we handle it?
Let's start from what matters to Leo — being at that final. I can suggest a small swap that keeps his weekend intact and balances back later, then share it for you both to approve.
Or talk to a real person on our team →
Or raise it with your legal team →
Neutral by design

For your children — never one parent's side against the other

Coparity is deliberately neutral. The same calm, child-first guidance goes to both of you, we never quietly relay what one parent tells us, and it's always clear what's shared and what's private. When you need a person, a real one on our team is a click away — just for you. And your records are always yours to take with you.

  • Neutral to the core — we help you find a plan, we don't pick a winner
  • Talk to a human on our team, private to you — never seen by your co-parent
  • Your data is yours: export everything you can see, any time
  • A clear line between shared records and what stays between you and us
  • Guidance, not legal advice — with a route to a qualified lawyer when it matters
Trust & privacy · who sees what
Shared with your co-parent

The calendar, expenses, documents and chat — the record you build together.

Private to you

Your legal lane — contacts, enquiries and notes — plus anything you send our team. Never shared with your co-parent.

Export my dataTalk to a humanSafety concern
You don't need both parents to start

Just as useful when it's only you

Not every co-parent is ready to sign up — and that's okay. Coparity works fully on your own from day one. You keep the schedule, the expenses, the documents and a clear record for your child, with AI guidance and a real person on our team whenever you need one. If your co-parent joins later, everything you've built is already there for them.

  • Full access on your own — nothing is locked behind a second sign-up
  • Every record is kept safely and stays yours to export anytime
  • Invite your co-parent whenever you're ready — no pressure
  • When they join, they see the complete history from the start
Your space · today and later
Starting on your own

Plan the calendar, log expenses with receipts, store the kids' documents and get child-first guidance — all today.

Weeks or months later, if they decide to join…
Your co-parent joins

They open the same space to the full history — every event, expense and document already in place. Nothing to redo.

How it works

1

Create your space

Set up your private co-parenting space in seconds — no complicated setup.

2

Invite your co-parent — or don't, yet

Coparity is fully useful on your own. Share one secure link whenever you're ready — when they join, they see the full history from the start.

3

Keep your child at the center

Plan, talk, share and resolve in one place — with AI help that always starts from what's best for your child.

Simple pricing

Start free for 14 days. Keep everything with one straightforward plan when you're ready.

Free trial

Full access, no commitment.

£0for 14 days
  • Every feature included
  • Both co-parents
  • No credit card required
Most popular

Family

Everything, for the whole family.

£12/ month
  • Parenting Plan Playbook — agreed together
  • Unlimited children, trips & expenses
  • AI Assistant, Foresight & legal escalation
  • Document storage & activity timeline
  • Priority support · cancel anytime

Frequently asked

Is my data private, and can I take it with you?

Yes. Everything is scoped to your pair and protected by row-level security — only you and your co-parent can see it. You can export a copy of everything you can access at any time, and anything you send our team stays private to you.

What if my co-parent won't join?

Coparity is built to be fully useful on your own. Keep the schedule, log expenses with receipts, store your children's documents, get child-first AI guidance and reach a real person on our team — all solo. Nothing waits on the other parent. Everything you add is kept safely, and the moment they choose to join — weeks or months later — they see the complete history from day one. No pressure, and no lost work.

What is the Parenting Plan Playbook?

It's your overarching parenting plan — one pre-agreed set of rules across twelve areas of your children's lives (schedules, holidays, education, health, communication, finances and more) that both parents, and any mediators or legal team, work to. A guided wizard walks you through it, the AI can draft a fair first version you edit, and you agree it point by point: one parent proposes, the other agrees or suggests a change. Once you both sign off, it becomes your shared source of truth. You can start it on your own — and a plan already waiting is often the calmest way to bring a hesitant co-parent in.

Do you take sides?

No — Coparity is neutral by design. We give the same child-first guidance to both parents, we never secretly share what one of you tells us with the other, and we help you reach a workable plan rather than deciding who's right.

Can I talk to a real person?

Yes. Alongside the AI, a real person on our team is one click away from any conversation. Those messages go only to us — your co-parent never sees them — and we treat safety concerns as urgent.

Can I bring my own lawyer in?

Yes. Your legal lane — your contacts, enquiries and notes — is private to you and never visible to your co-parent. When a case is live you can invite your solicitor into your space as a legal representative: they work from your live record read-only (never the other parent's private information), can take part in your enquiry discussions, and you can revoke their access instantly at any time.

What makes the AI assistant different?

It's built to start from your child's wellbeing, not to police 50/50 fairness. It suggests plans and schedules in their best interest and keeps guidance calm — but it isn't a substitute for a qualified lawyer.

What is Tone AI in chat?

When a message you're typing to your co-parent might land as tense, Tone AI gently offers a calmer, child-focused way to say the same thing — you can use it, edit it, or send your own words. It only ever looks at your own drafts before you send, never your co-parent's messages, and nothing is stored. You can turn it off any time in Settings.

What is Foresight, and is it watching us?

Foresight reads only your own shared space — the schedules, expenses and activity you already keep in Coparity — to gently flag patterns worth getting ahead of, like a stalled expense or slipping handovers. Nothing leaves your pair, it never shares data between you, and every signal is just a suggestion you can action or dismiss. It learns from what you wave away, so it only surfaces what matters to your family.

Do I need a credit card to start?

No. The 14-day free trial needs no card — you get full access from day one.

What happens after the trial?

Move to the Family plan to keep everything running. You can cancel anytime.

Keep your kids in the center, not the middle

Set up your shared, child-first space in minutes. Your first 14 days are free — no card, no lock-in.